Keep him guessing!

What makes for fantastic sex?

What has communication have to do with good sex? EVERYTHING!! If you truly want your sexual relationship to be all that it can be, take time to communicate with one another. Communication really is the key to great sex. Communicate with one another about your expectations, your fears, your desires, your concerns, and be honest! This is necessary for all couples, newly weds and long married couples, too.

One of the areas you can discuss with one another is your sexual style preference, here are a few;

• Spiritual: This is a union of mind, body and soul that reflects the deep appreciation of having one another. It can be created by noticing the small moments in your lives.


• Funny: This style is when you can laugh and tease one another in and out of bed. It's having fun.
• Angry: This is making love even when you're ticked off at each other. This style can be healing. But be sure that problems are eventually talked about and resolved.
• Lusty: This style is the wicked looks at one another, the quickies, and the joy of having sex just for the sake of sex.
• Tender: A look at the gentle, healing sex that involves massages, light touches, and ministering to one another.
• Fantasy: This style is made up of the collaboration between the two of you to be daring, and to experiment a bit.

Successful Counselling Therapist and Radio Relationship Advisor, Jo Jordan is better know as ‘Auntie Jo’ or AJ. For the last fifteen years she has run her own Counselling Therapy Consultancy and is a tutor of Stress and Anger Management and Life Skills, these courses made available to Further Education, companies and individuals.

...All couples have all of these styles or moods at some time in their married lives. Talk with one another about them. Sexuality in marriage is a great gift. It is a gift to be enjoyed and nurtured.

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